Keep Giving the Church what We Need, Dear Siblings, Sanely - On Brokenness and Strength in Christ
Brokenness, humility and a readiness to weep are righteous states for the preacher and the non-preaching Christian. Seeing other Christians as worth your trouble to help is humble, and helping the broken depends on understanding personal brokenness. Haughty self-contentment won't cry out to God for strength to help us all.
On the other hand, we have the power to stand in God when we sincerely go to Him. We have the opportunity to fight, and it feels strong and confident. We do know that the knowledge we've gained is useful to help them; we know that they don't get the help easily because of their sin, which we have also battled, and which keeps all Christians at a low state - unable to receive strong food that must be chewed and digested with energy.
It's a terrible thing to have a key to a door that your Christian sibling doesn't want to enter, even though the other side of it is pleasant, and they refuse to hold the key to turn the lock, even with your hand directly manipulating theirs! Oh, the agony of spirit when they will not! But, let them alone, dear preacher, and give them what they need, remembering we are all broken in this sin-corrupted flesh we all wear, some more than others, and give them what they need, and take what you need, and thank God together for His loving-kindness toward us, and grow in agape-love, sanely.