God's Gentleness is Stronger than Human Willfullness
Shattering expectations reaps a limited benefit, but slowly leading through change is better. God tenderly gives us time to change a little each day. Compared with the arrogant prodding of the violent father, His method is better, because it allows the internal structure to solidify, instead of creating firmness on only the outside. It's slower to go wide, but it reaches deeper in its change. God's goodness makes everyone He graces glad.