A Dark Worldly Rule Always Behaves Nominally According to the Other's Point of View
Seeing things from others points of view is useful to a point, but structuring your behavior after your assumption of another's point of view or even after your certain knowledge of it is dangerous and wicked. Consider the Golden Rule and compare it with this concept. How can doing to others as you suppose or know that they want you to do to them be kind when it is the opposite of the kind God's rule of behavior to do to others as you want them to do to you? No. Becoming so various that you tailor yourself to the other - or to your impression of the other - grinds down your own personhood, makes you unnaturally and exhaustingly question and schism your own clear motives in the light of what you think another will think, and it makes you love the other more than yourself and it makes you love the other with your whole soul in much the same way that we are told to love God. Then we love ourselves and others on an equal footing.
Following the World's current rule of loving others first also sets up false expectations that they will love you first. Also, those who go by the World's rule of seeing everything from the other's point of view don't really do that, but they very often use the knowledge the rule affords to manipulate the other into a false belief that they are on their side in a matter, and it gives the practitioner of the rule lots of leeway to carefully interweave their own agenda through lots of semantic trickery to control the other's responses and behaviors in that matter.
Love God with your whole mind, heart, will and soul first, and then love others with the behaviors you would like for them to show you as you love yourself.
Following the World's current rule of loving others first also sets up false expectations that they will love you first. Also, those who go by the World's rule of seeing everything from the other's point of view don't really do that, but they very often use the knowledge the rule affords to manipulate the other into a false belief that they are on their side in a matter, and it gives the practitioner of the rule lots of leeway to carefully interweave their own agenda through lots of semantic trickery to control the other's responses and behaviors in that matter.
Love God with your whole mind, heart, will and soul first, and then love others with the behaviors you would like for them to show you as you love yourself.