Honestly Give to the Needy in Love
Love doesn't hurt others for selfishness. That's why the stand against evil is loving and the growth of The Holy Spirit's fruit is loving. And that's how developing soulish matters is loving, and helping siblings in Christ do so - even when it's painful - does love.
Feeding the poor with physical food is loving, but it's hateful when spiritual food is never given, especially when salvation doctrine is continuously withheld over the long term from those without the hope of salvation, which many churches do in confusion about love.
It's better to work on yourself, and then you will be well placed and ready to actively love by feeding the poor with those things that real love directs the sincere Christian to honestly give to the needy.